Resources

Real help for students facing a pregnancy, plus everything you need to talk about life with clarity and kindness.

Pregnancy & parenting helpHealingThe SLED testCommon objectionsDebate prepKeep learning

Pregnant or parenting? You're not alone.

Free, confidential help is close by. You can also message any SFL officer and we'll help you find what you need, no judgment.

A Woman's Answer Medical Center

Free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds and counseling in Gainesville.
1219 NW 10th Ave · (352) 367-2716
Call ahead to confirm hours.

Option Line

Talk to someone 24/7 and find a pregnancy center near you.
1-800-712-4357 · optionline.org

Standing With You

Students for Life's directory of support for pregnant and parenting students: housing, childcare, school and more.
standingwithyou.org

UF Counseling & Wellness

Free counseling for UF students.
(352) 392-1575 · counseling.ufl.edu

U Matter, We Care

UF's team for students going through something hard. They connect you with the right help.
umatter.ufl.edu

In crisis?

Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time. In an emergency, call 911.

Healing after abortion

Many women and men carry grief after an abortion. These groups offer confidential, compassionate support.

Support After Abortion

Confidential support and a hotline, for women and men. supportafterabortion.com

Rachel's Vineyard

Weekend healing retreats offered across Florida. rachelsvineyard.org

Talk to us

Want someone to listen? Reach out to any officer, privately, through Instagram or the GroupMe.

The SLED test

The differences between a preborn child and you are real, but none of them decide whether someone is a valuable human being. Four letters to remember:

S

Size

A toddler is smaller than a teenager. Being smaller doesn't make someone less human.

L

Level of development

A 4-year-old can't reason like a 20-year-old. We don't value people by how developed they are.

E

Environment

Moving 8 inches down the birth canal doesn't change what you are.

D

Degree of dependency

People on insulin or a ventilator depend on help, and they still have full human worth.

Common objections

Start by listening. Ask questions, find what you agree on, and keep the focus on the one key question: what is the unborn?

"It's just a clump of cells."

Every human body is made of cells, including yours. Embryology textbooks describe the embryo as a living, distinct, whole human organism from fertilization, with its own DNA and directing its own growth. The question isn't whether it's made of cells, but what kind of being it is.

"My body, my choice."

Agree with what's true: bodily autonomy matters a lot. Then gently point out that the child is a separate body, with a different heartbeat, blood type and often sex. Our right to our body doesn't usually include ending another person's life.

"What about cases of rape?"

Start with compassion: rape is a horrific crime and survivors deserve real support and justice. Then ask whether the child conceived should lose their life for the father's crime. Pro-life care means walking with the mother and her child, both of whom have value.

"It's not a person yet."

Ask what makes someone a person. If it's consciousness, ability or development, newborns and some disabled adults would fail the test too. The SLED test shows those differences don't decide human worth.

"Pro-lifers only care until birth."

Fair challenge, and a great opening. Point to pregnancy centers, diaper drives, housing and the parenting-student support we promote. Then invite them to volunteer with us at the clinic.

"You can't force your religion on others."

The case for life starts with science (what the unborn is) and human rights (we shouldn't kill innocent humans). People of every faith, and none, are pro-life.

Debate prep

Practice prompts from our Hot Seat nights. Try answering each one in under a minute, then swap roles.

  1. When does a human life begin, and how do you know?
  2. What should the law say when a pregnancy threatens the mother's life?
  3. Is there a difference between a person and a human being?
  4. How would you support a classmate who just found out she's pregnant?
  5. If abortion were illegal, what should happen to women who have one?
  6. How should we respond to someone who says this issue is too personal to debate?

Conversation tips

  • Ask before you tell. "What do you mean by that?" beats a speech.
  • Find common ground. Most people agree it's wrong to kill innocent humans.
  • Stay on the main question. What is the unborn? Everything else follows.
  • Be kind. You're talking to a person, not winning a point.

Keep learning

Students for Life of America

Our national organization: training, campaigns and campus resources. studentsforlife.org

Equal Rights Institute

Free training on having productive pro-life conversations. equalrightsinstitute.com

The Case for Life

Scott Klusendorf's short, readable book on making the pro-life case. A great first read.